On March 14, 2023, Jason Kreidman hosted a live Q&A session on the Dad University Show. The video, created by Dad University, allowed viewers to join the chat on multiple platforms such as YouTube, Twitter, LinkedIn, and Instagram. Though Instagram was not fully integrated into the software, Luke kindly read aloud any comments from Instagram viewers. Throughout the session, Jason provided valuable advice and insights on various parenting topics, including helping a fussy newborn during the Witching Hour, raising a girl, understanding and dealing with tantrums, navigating differences in parenting styles between spouses, setting boundaries, and using electronics with children. Jason, who has a 14-year-old son and a 12-year-old daughter, emphasized the importance of empathy, compromise, communication, and leading by example in being the best parent one can be. To support the Dad University Show and gain access to courses, videos, and discussion groups, viewers were encouraged to become members and reap the benefits of being a part of the Dad University community.
During the live Q&A session on the Dad University Show, Jason Kreidman delved into a variety of parenting topics, providing practical tips and strategies to help dads navigate the challenges of raising children. He addressed common concerns, such as dealing with a fussy newborn during the Witching Hour, suggesting ways to identify if the baby is tired, hungry, or in need of attention or soothing. For dads raising girls, Jason emphasized the importance of treating them equally and allowing them the same opportunities and choices as boys, while acknowledging the existence of double standards in parenting. He also offered advice on gentle parenting techniques for dealing with tantrums in toddlers and discussed the importance of understanding a child’s behavior and emotions, setting boundaries, and navigating differences in parenting styles between spouses. Throughout the session, Jason emphasized the value of becoming a member of Dad University, as it provides access to resources, courses, videos, and discussion groups dedicated to supporting and guiding fathers on their parenting journey.
Jason Kreidman hosted a live Q&A session on the Dad University Show
On March 14, 2023, Jason Kreidman, the creator of Dad University, hosted a live Q&A session on the Dad University Show. This session provided a unique opportunity for viewers to engage directly with Jason and ask parenting-related questions. The video was created by Dad University, a platform dedicated to providing resources, courses, and support to fathers everywhere.
Platforms for Joining the Chat
Viewers had the option to join the chat on YouTube, Twitter, LinkedIn, or Instagram. However, it was mentioned that Instagram was not integrated into the software. Comments from Instagram were read aloud by Luke, helping to ensure that questions and comments from all platforms were addressed during the session.
To encourage support for the show and gain access to exclusive content, viewers were encouraged to become members of Dad University. By becoming a member, individuals could access courses, videos, and discussion groups focused on fatherhood.
Questions and Answers
During the live Q&A session, attendees had the opportunity to ask Jason Kreidman various parenting questions. Below are some of the notable questions and Jason’s responses:
Eric’s Query about Dealing with a Fussy Newborn
Eric sought advice on how to handle his fussy newborn during the Witching Hour, which typically occurs from 5 PM to 3 AM. Jason advised Eric to first consider the fundamental reasons why babies cry, such as tiredness, hunger, or a need for attention or soothing. It is essential to fulfill these needs before exploring other solutions.
Jason suggested checking if the baby is tired, hungry, or in need of attention or soothing. He also recommended trying different methods, such as using a swing or taking a walk, to calm the baby. Each child is unique, and it might take some trial and error to find what works best for Eric’s baby.
Matt’s Inquiry about Raising a Girl
Matt, who grew up in a family of boys, sought tips on raising his three-month-old daughter. Jason emphasized the importance of treating boys and girls equally, giving them the same opportunities and choices. He shared his personal experience of raising his daughter without imposing any gender stereotypes. Jason made a conscious effort to use the same toys and allow his daughter to explore her interests freely.
Jason acknowledged the existence of a double standard in parenting between sons and daughters. However, he believed that birth order plays a more significant role in shaping children’s behaviors than gender. It is vital to provide children with choices and the freedom to express themselves, regardless of societal expectations.
Information about Jason’s Kids
During the session, Jason mentioned that he is the father of a 14-year-old son and a 12-year-old daughter. Having firsthand experience with raising both a boy and a girl, Jason was able to draw on his personal journey as a father to offer valuable insights and advice.
Parenting Tips for New Fathers
In addition to answering specific questions, Jason shared some general parenting tips for new fathers:
Being Okay with Not Knowing What to Do
Parenting is a continuous learning process, and it’s normal to feel uncertain at times. Jason emphasized the importance of being okay with not knowing what to do and approaching fatherhood with an open mind. Seeking advice, learning from others, and experimenting with different strategies can help new fathers navigate the challenges that come with caring for a newborn.
Showing Empathy for Your Partner
Jason stressed the significance of empathy in a co-parenting relationship. It is essential to understand and support one another emotionally, especially during the early stages of parenthood. Taking the time to listen, offer help, and express appreciation for your partner’s efforts can strengthen the bond between you as parents.
Creating a Schedule
Establishing a routine can be a game-changer for new fathers. Creating a schedule helps in maintaining consistency and predictability for both the baby and the parents. This includes setting regular feeding times, sleep routines, and playtime activities. A well-structured schedule can provide a sense of stability and make the transition to fatherhood more manageable.
Setting Clear Roles and Responsibilities
Clear communication and shared responsibilities are crucial for co-parenting success. Jason emphasized the importance of discussing and defining roles early on, ensuring that both partners feel involved and supported. Creating a division of labor that suits both parents’ strengths and preferences can help foster a balanced and harmonious parenting dynamic.
Setting Boundaries with Family and Friends
Jason highlighted the significance of setting boundaries with family and friends when it comes to parenting. While support and assistance from loved ones can be valuable, it is crucial to establish clear boundaries that respect the parents’ decisions and preferences. Maintaining open communication and asserting the parents’ authority will contribute to a healthy and respectful environment for the child.
Taking Breaks When Needed
Parenting can be exhausting, and it’s important to prioritize self-care. Jason encouraged new fathers to recognize when they need a break and to take time for themselves. Whether it’s going for a walk, pursuing a hobby, or seeking support from other dads, taking breaks can help fathers recharge and maintain their well-being.
Parenting a 19-Month-Old
Jason also provided guidance on parenting a 19-month-old child. Some of the key tips he shared include:
Using Demonstration Instead of Timeout
At this age, timeouts might not be the most effective form of discipline. Jason recommended using demonstration as a method to teach desired behaviors. For example, instead of putting a child in timeout for hitting, parents can gently guide the child’s arm and demonstrate a soft touch or a gentle kiss. Children at this age are still developing their understanding of consequences, so it is crucial to focus on teaching and modeling positive behavior.
Gentle Parenting Techniques
Jason highlighted the importance of using gentle parenting techniques with young children. Instead of resorting to punishments or harsh discipline methods, he recommended using positive reinforcement and redirecting the child’s attention to more appropriate activities. Creating a nurturing and empathetic environment helps foster a strong parent-child relationship.
Suggestions for Dealing with Fits
It’s common for 19-month-olds to throw fits and become overwhelmed by their emotions. Jason suggested redirecting the child’s attention and offering alternative activities to help calm them down. However, it’s important to acknowledge that these behaviors may persist at times, and patience is key in navigating these situations.
Understanding Reasons Behind Tantrums
Jason emphasized the importance of understanding the reasons behind tantrums at this age. Often, tantrums occur because children lack effective communication skills or are unable to express their needs and frustrations adequately. By empathizing with their emotions and offering comfort, parents can help their child feel understood and supported.
Strategies for Dealing with Tantrums
When faced with a tantrum, Jason recommended getting down to the child’s level, maintaining a calm demeanor, and validating their feelings. Offering choices and allowing the child to assert some control can also be helpful in diffusing tense situations. By providing comfort and support, parents can guide their child through tantrums and help them learn healthier ways of expressing themselves.
Dealing with Parenting Style Differences
Jason addressed the challenges that arise from differences in parenting styles between spouses. He stressed the importance of communication and compromise in navigating these differences. Open and respectful communication allows each partner to express their perspectives and concerns, leading to greater understanding and compromise. Setting aside personal preferences and focusing on what’s best for the child can help bridge the gap between different parenting styles.
Additionally, Jason highlighted the significance of leading by example. Children learn by observing their parents’ behaviors and actions, making it essential for parents to demonstrate the values and principles they want to instill in their children. By modeling the desired behaviors, parents can help shape their child’s character and establish a strong foundation for their growth and development.
Balancing Electronics Use with Children
In a digital age, finding a balance between technology and children can be challenging. Jason emphasized the importance of adopting a balanced approach that takes into account individual circumstances. While it’s crucial to introduce children to technology in a controlled and supervised manner, it’s equally important to establish screen-free time and encourage other activities that promote physical, emotional, and social development.
Handling Worry and Anxiety in Parenting
Parenting often comes with worry and anxiety, but Jason offered tips on how to navigate these feelings:
Talking to Parents About the Pregnancy
Jason stressed the importance of communication when it comes to discussing the pregnancy with parents, even if they may not be supportive. By expressing their hopes, concerns, and expectations, parents can foster understanding and establish a support network.
Avoiding Worry and the ‘What If’ Game
Worrying about all the potential risks and challenges can be overwhelming. Jason advised against indulging in the “what if” game, as it can lead to unnecessary panic and anxiety. Focusing on the present situation and addressing issues as they arise is a more constructive approach to parenting.
Addressing Different Perspectives through Communication
Differences in parenting perspectives are common, and they can lead to feelings of tension and conflict. Jason recommended addressing these differences through open and respectful communication. Taking the time to understand each other’s viewpoints and finding common ground can help bridge the gap and create a harmonious parenting approach.
Importance of Compromise
Compromise plays a vital role in navigating parenting challenges. Jason emphasized the importance of finding middle ground and considering the reasons behind different parenting approaches. By compromising and taking into account each partner’s needs and values, parents can work together to create a nurturing and balanced environment for their child.
Benefits of Dad University Membership
As the session came to a close, Jason highlighted the benefits of becoming a member of Dad University:
Access to Resources
Members gain exclusive access to a wide range of resources, including courses, videos, and quizzes on various topics related to fatherhood. These resources are designed to provide practical guidance and support to fathers, empowering them to be the best parents they can be.
Courses on Fatherhood
Dad University offers nine comprehensive courses on different aspects of fatherhood. These courses cover topics such as newborn care, discipline strategies, co-parenting, and more. Each course is carefully curated and provides valuable insights and practical tips for fathers at every stage of their parenting journey.
Becoming a member of Dad University not only supports the show but also offers fathers the tools and resources they need to thrive as parents. By joining the Dad University community, fathers can connect with like-minded individuals, access valuable resources, and gain the knowledge and confidence to navigate the joys and challenges of fatherhood.